Follow your heart

Being single is not a bad thing at all. But what if you are single and have no lover to “make love” to? Some start to do hookups, some just masturbate, and some even find F buddies or friend with benefits. It is nice to have an intimacy with someone once in a while, because as human being, we all need some love and appreciation from others. We have that physical need that it feels better when someone does it to us instead of using our hand. It is nice to have someone that can come to you, and you two agree upon that nothing but purely “fun.”

All of this being said, yet the mind and heart contradict one another. The heart is trying to tell you that “You can do better than that.” But the mind, on the other hand, is trying to tell you that “It’s nicer to just have fun.” Through our life, how many times that we really try to get in touch with our heart. Most of the time, we go with what the mind says and neglect the main thing about what our heart is going for. We only live once in life, and we should do whatever makes us happy. We know better than anyone else about our own feeling and desire. If you are out there in this kind of relationship and dilemma, get in touch with your true feeling. If giving time to think about this will help, then do that.

The idea of living once in life is not about “Heck, since I am going to die one day, I might as well have sex now with friends rather than just wasting my time waiting for the real love to show up.” This is completely twisted. The idea is more like what makes you happy and what makes you feel comfortable doing that without any regrets or second thoughts. So be true to yourself. If doing that is what you are looking for, then go for it boldly. If not, then you know what to do.

I am hard on myself all the time when it comes to dilemma subjects, and I tend to get very emotional and indecisive. To me though, it’s more like the contradiction between my mind and my heart that is trying to pull me into two pieces apart. What I am exactly looking for is twisted to be what I am really not looking for. Time can change, and people can change too. However, no matter how much those people change, one thing they know is that they still have something that indicates them about what exactly they are really after. Loneliness sucks, that’s the same as being single, you may say, but you don’t want to lose the fight to these, and more importantly, lose yourself. Go and have fun with your life! You can do better than what your mind thinks.

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