Part of the Q&A today is:

What are ten things you like about your job?

1. Colleagues are appreciative when someone has done something for them
2. The upper level folks never cease to compliment the team and employees work
3. No dress code 
4. My team is just so amazing - we are very compatible
5. The company is not big
6. I feel good every time when my problem solving skills work like a charm :)
7. Ability to learn new things by not just focusing on one particular thing
8. Laid back manager and understanding CEO
9. The company sponsored my workingn visa
10. Decent and satisfying pay

Sometimes, when we take a moment to think about what are the things that we like about our job or anything else, we will only focus on the positive areas. Having said, when we say that we hate this and that, our mind will focus on the negative areas, which is not healthy. So take a moment and think about what are the ten things you like about your job. 

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Tonight's Q&A section:

Looking back at my life, what are three problems from my past that have paved the way for positive growth and how did this occur?

1. It would be my low self-esteem - it was my major problem in life that made me frustrated all the time. For the most part, I often think that I am never good enough for anyone, but I finally learn how to live my life and improve myself in every aspects of life to higher my self-confidence and self-esteem.
2. Being not comfortable with myself - this was such a pain experience in my life. I looked up to other people but failed to realize that at the end of the day, all I have with me is me. I start to see that my self-image has been better and I am very comfortable with myself.
3. Taking things and people for granted. I think we all do that in life to some point. Subconsciously, I self-reflect all the time. Therefore, nowadays I learn to enjoy things and people around me, and no more taking them for granted.

Problems in life suck, but without them, how are we going to grow? So what were your problems?

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I just got back from Texas trip, I will be posting some photos and talk a little bit about the trip when I get a chance. But before I go to bed tonight, I want to post this Q&A section.

When do I feel most connected with others?  When do I feel most disconnected?

I think the moment that I feel most connected with others is a situation when those people like to do a lot of things that happen to be the same things that I like to do. Then we will have more to talk about. Heading to the same direction with others is always the "key" that I am looking for in life because if we go the opposite way, there's really nothing to mention. Compromising attitude is also what I like to see in others. 

As for when I feel most disconnected is pretty much the opposite of what I was saying above. But people that don't have goals, complain but don't do anything about the problem(s), too predictable and not sincere, those really turn me off. 

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I hope you all enjoyed the Presidential Final Debate tonight. Now it's time for my Q&A section. 

What are ten ways I can acknowledge myself along this journey? 

1. Stay healthy
2. Keep improving myself physically and emotionally
3. Love myself
4. Show more gratitude toward my blessing
5. Live my life to the fullest
6. Create attainable goals and try to achieve them the best I can
7. Meet more interesting people and make more friends
8. Be cool, haha....
9. Be myself
10. Learn and see more new things and places

Okay, there can be more, but I came up with these 10 items that came to my mind. What about yours?

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For today's Q&A, I think the below question is a very good question.

What’s holding me back from opening my heart?

• Most often I feel that I am too independent. I have been living alone for a long time and finally it is "numb" for me to even realize how to live with another person.
• I enjoy my own space and time.
• I prefer doing things the way I want to and not listen to anyone trying to tell me what to do, unless I ask for. Look, I dyed my hair, haha... it was supposed to be dark blonde, but that color + black = red somewhat, hehe... and that's just the way I am. Do whatever I want to do. 
• For the most part, I think that I am afraid of getting hurt.

However, for all the saying, I am also learning to accept these characteristics, embrace them and never cease to improve or make a change. I sometime find myself opening my heart to things and people around, and it's a great feeling. It's all part of my life experiences. But something to learn is that sometimes "too" is never a good thing. So what's holding you back from opening your heart? 

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Q&A section for today:

What are ten qualities I really value in my closest relationships?

1. Be there for one another when needed
2. Encouraging one another
3. Honest and not lying
4. Mean what he/she says and say what he/she means
5. Not afraid to try new things out
6. Laid back
7. Funny
8. Able to hold conversation
9. Less lecturing but more understanding
10. Compromising

These are the qualities that I value in friends, but not limited to life partner either. What are yours? 

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For today's Q&A:

What activities or personal experiences feel most meaningful to me? 

• Coming to the United States 
• Living alone and independently
• Trying new things
• Going to new places
• Self-reflecting
• Dating to figure out what my types are and what I am looking for

These are mine that I think they make me feel good and provide meaningful for my life. You should take a moment and think about it. Have fun.

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Today's Q&A will be:

What are five activities I used to enjoy doing as a child that I wish I did today?

1. I would have to say singer, haha... I loved to pretend I am one.
2. Hanging out with those friends back home.
3. My grandpa used to buy me "bao bao" to eat everytime I got up from napping. I guess that napping is a kind of activity too, but the main thing is that I do miss him a lot.
4. Playing arcade with friends.
5. Taking rain shower with friends until my mom yelled at, haha.... too big to do that now, they might think I am crazy, hehe....

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Part of the Q&A tonight, I am going to answer to a question below:

What are ten things I feel grateful for in my life right now?

1. Being healthy
2. Being able to stay in the US and work
3. My car
4. My apartment
5. My gadgets
6. People to talk to when I feel down (Yes, I have that moment too!)
7. My look, haha...
8. My degree
9. Being able to afford things that I want to have
10. My beloved family no matter what they have done to me, haha.... I miss them all the time. 

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This evening, part of the Q&A section, I am going to answer another question.

What are ten things I really like to do?

1. Visit places/cities/states that I have never been to. 
2. Watch series that make me just want to watch, haha... (i.e Heroes)
3. Going to the ocean/lakes/hills
4. Dine out/try out new restaurants
5. Shopping for clothes, haha...
6. Design web pages/blogs
7. Take pictures for my blog
8. Learn new things
9. Improve myself physically and emotionally
10. Decorate my place

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Starting today, I am going to try to answer a few questions that are posted on a Life Coach's blog - Michael Moniz

I think this will be fun, and will allow me to think about some various aspects of friendship, love/relationship, and life in general. You are welcome to "play" with me. But each day, I will only answer one of the questions that he posted, and I reserve the right to pick whichever one that I want to answer. So here we go....

What are ten reasons someone would be happy to be in a relationship with me?

1. I don't cheat
2. I am cute, haha....
3. I have a car
4. I have a job
5. I am a very nice guy
6. I am loving and caring
7. I am very romantic, haha...
8. I enjoy doing things together
9. I am honest
10. I have sense of humor

Hm... make it 11. I don't smoke and snore, haha.... (purely based on the past experience). So what about you? What are ten reasons someone would be happy to be in a relationship with you?

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