I lately notice that since I have been comfortable about myself, it does not really matter a lot to live up to someone’s expectation or even judgment. The moment I see myself as an individual person trying his best to live his own life to the fullest as he can is a great moment of self-acknowledgement. Being alone is not as scary as before, and the feeling to be loved is not as desperate as before.
What is the first thing you think when you are alone? What is the first thing you see yourself when you look in the mirror? What is the first thing you ponder when it comes to living your life? When you are comfortable with yourself, and when you think that you are the creator of your own happiness, that is when you really do not need the other person to make you feel better about yourself or happy. More important than that is you are not afraid to be alone and end up single forever. We, as human, are afraid to grow older alone and have no partner, but the question is did we live a life to the fullest when we were young? I think that’s a serious matter that is more important than being afraid of growing old and single. So start living your life, for now is how we shape our future.
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"when you think that you are the creator of your own happiness, that is when you really do not need the other person to make you feel better about yourself or happy."--- i could relate to this line. somehow we wanted to think we can are the sole creator of happiness. lalo na kapag single! haha! joke :)
ahh yung signature? gawa ko lang yun. wrote it in a sheet of white paper, had it scanned, inverted the colors and VOILA! hehe!
Oh that's how you did it LOL...I thought there's a cool way to do that. And I don't speak Philippines language, I assume that's what you were typing ;)