There are two types of sweet talking. One is good, and another one is bad. It is bad when the giver is not being honest and he or she is just trying to get something that he or she wants from the receiver. On the other hand, sweet talking is good when the giver is honest and especially it makes the receiver feels good about himself or herself.
Sometimes, it is not hard to figure out whether the sweet talker is being honest or not. I have been there and experienced it. I did not buy whatever the lying sweet talkers were trying to say or tell me. However, sometimes it is not easy either to figure out the good and bad sweet talking. If you just set the sweet talking aside for a moment, and regardless it is good or bad, one thing you have to keep in mind is to not fall for things that your instinct is trying to tell you it is not good to listen to. Another thing you have to keep in mind is that sweet talking most often time makes you feel good about yourself. If this is the case, then go for it. Most people say they don’t like sweet talking, but underneath their consciousness, they already accept it as a compliment. If sweet talking was done in a healthy way from the giver, then why not accept it as a compliment? It will make you feel much better about yourself and it helps to burst up your self-confidence. These never go wrong with compliments.
Therefore, next time when you run into a sweet talker, stay alert about his or her intention. Later on, get in touch with your own feeling whether or not it makes you feel much better about yourself. Accept it as a compliment and smile to show your gratitude. You know that although your mouth says you don’t like sweet talking, but your heart already melt down.
Sometimes, it is not hard to figure out whether the sweet talker is being honest or not. I have been there and experienced it. I did not buy whatever the lying sweet talkers were trying to say or tell me. However, sometimes it is not easy either to figure out the good and bad sweet talking. If you just set the sweet talking aside for a moment, and regardless it is good or bad, one thing you have to keep in mind is to not fall for things that your instinct is trying to tell you it is not good to listen to. Another thing you have to keep in mind is that sweet talking most often time makes you feel good about yourself. If this is the case, then go for it. Most people say they don’t like sweet talking, but underneath their consciousness, they already accept it as a compliment. If sweet talking was done in a healthy way from the giver, then why not accept it as a compliment? It will make you feel much better about yourself and it helps to burst up your self-confidence. These never go wrong with compliments.
Therefore, next time when you run into a sweet talker, stay alert about his or her intention. Later on, get in touch with your own feeling whether or not it makes you feel much better about yourself. Accept it as a compliment and smile to show your gratitude. You know that although your mouth says you don’t like sweet talking, but your heart already melt down.
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